because I've been in one for over 4 yrs and I wouldn't go out with highschool age girls for "dating fun", and my fiance definitely wouldn't cheat on me in any way. One thing I can tell you is if you are separated by a great distance you might as well call it quits, especially if she is messing around with other guys. Its like sitting at the Sizzler saying you are hungry but you aren't gonna eat anything because you have a hamburger a thousand miles away you are holding out for. But somebody is already eating your hamburger. Or something. That pretty much lets you know what she thinks of the whole thing too. No measure of guilt will make up for the kind of dedication it takes to make a relationship work. If I were you, I'd put the whole thing on hold or end it altogether, maybe if circumstances change in the future you can be together and try again but its probably time to move on in some way.
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